My car clock ticked off two unacceptable minutes as I stared at the drive-thru menu. Since my hour-long commute had come in under an hour, I had time to treat myself to breakfast. The little speaker box stayed silent.
With a huff, I put my car into gear and approached the window, uninvited. The lights were on and workers scurried about with intent, but not one of them acknowledged my presence, or my desire for food and coffee. After a few more minutes—and maybe after wildly waving my arms—I mumbled, and pulled away. On the short drive to the office, Anger convinced me to write a public review, contact the corporate headquarters, and post my disappointment in a quirpy Facebook post.
Anger is relentless and persuasive; he begs us to respond with urgency before we can acquire more information, or fully understand the whole situation.~Cynthia Mendenhall, author of Spunkify Your Life: 8 Secrets to Living with More Focus, Fascination, and Fun
Like a big bully, Anger tries to boss us around. He shoves us into feeling rejected. He calls us names until we are offended. He provokes us to agree with him and to seek revenge, and then some. Anger is relentless and persuasive; he begs us to respond with urgency before we can acquire more information, or fully understand the whole situation. We’ve all watched, in horror, as others cannon-ball off the high dive into anger as if it were a swimming pool on a July day.
People with understanding control their anger; a hot temper shows great foolishness.~Proverbs 14:29 NLT
I cornered several of my co-workers before our work day began to share my rage, and some pretty ugly opinions of the chain restaurant’s customer service. One friend widened her eyes and ducked her chin. After clearing her throat twice and allowing a small giggle to escape, she informed me Wendy’s, at that time, did not even serve breakfast.
You must all be quick to listen, slow to speak, and slow to get angry.~James 1:19 NLT
All of my drama and stress that morning could have been avoided if I would have recognized Anger and kept him away from the entire situation. Then maybe not everyone I worked with would have had a front seat for my cannonball of foolishness.
Let’s become slower in getting angry—slower in becoming frustrated with a business employee, or our pastor, or a friend, family member, or coworker, based only on the details we know. It’s safe to assume we lack the key information to make a true and fair opinion in the moment: key information, like the menu offerings, or hours of the local Wendy’s drive-through.
What are some ways the bully of Anger provokes you?
Dear Father God, I never know the whole story, and I apologize for the times I act like I do. You alone know all. I commit to come to You, Lord, before Anger has a chance to do its damage. Please help me to listen more, and to slow down my reactions when I am frustrated, or challenged, and to keep my distance from Anger, and instead turn to You.
In Jesus’s Name, Amen.
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Cynthia Mendenhall is an author, speaker, adventuress, and a contributing writer to VineWords: Devotions and More. Her devotions specialize in victory over traumas such as divorce, or other life-altering situations. She encourages the reader to fully embrace her single-again status, and she inspires her to live every day to the fullest regardless of the challenges she may be working through. Once captive to guilt and fear, and hurt by the loss of a 30-year marriage, Cynthia now pursues with passion the mission of leading others into the true freedom, love, and abundant life, the believer can experience in Jesus Christ.
Cynthia is a former high school English teacher and holds a Masters’ degree in Educational Leadership. She is a Certified Christian Life Coach, a trained Chaplain, and is employed as a Career and Leadership Coach for students of Ohio University.
Her prescriptive non-fiction sits within the context of stories filled with common sense teaching, splashes of humor, and always with the Bible as her foundation. Her voice is that of a friend sharing conversation over coffee.
Cynthia is the author of Spunkify Your Life: 8 Secrets to Living with More Focus, Fascination, and Fun; Spunkify Your Life Growth Guide, and Spunkier Yet!: 8 Secrets to Living with More Fullness and Freedom
Cynthia enjoys spending time at the beach. She regularly sneaks away on all sorts of adventures, taking notes along the way as writing material inspiration. Her favorite activities include riding her cruiser bike, sunset floats in her lime green kayak named Earl, and indulging in literary novels, sipping coffee, and sampling dark chocolate.
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